London-based singer-songwriter Nat Oaks is gaining recognition across the alternative hip-hop and indie pop scenes. Her latest single, ‘The Way You Want Me’, released during Pride Month 2025, marks a new chapter in her sound—moving away from people-pleasing and toward self-acceptance.
Following standout performances on the Main Stage at Love Saves The Day, Little Simz’s Meltdown Festival at the Southbank Centre, and her Glastonbury debut after placing second in the 2025 Glastonbury Emerging Talent Competition, Nat is making her mark on some of the UK’s most celebrated stages.
Influenced by artists like Loyle Carner, Arlo Parks, and Little Simz, she blends alternative hip-hop, R&B, and indie pop into a distinctive, emotionally honest style. Her live shows have led to support slots with Jelani Blackman, Pip Millett, and Master Peace, while her identity as a queer artist continues to shape her work and perspective.
We caught up with Nat as she enters a pivotal summer to talk new music, live shows, and letting go of expectations.
What’s the story behind your new single The Way You Want Me’?
The Way You Want Me came during one of the last mornings of a songwriting camp in the Cotswolds. My producer MSTRY had come up with a beat from the couch, and I mumbled over it coming up with a theme pretty quickly. I found myself reflecting on the position I was currently in – just wanting to enjoy the moment and not take things too seriously. I’m always cautious of not wanting to just make love songs, so this was a fun way to approach the topic.
How do you build trust and chemistry in a songwriting session, especially when time is limited, like at a camp?
I like to dedicate good time to get to know the other writers. It’s sets an important basis which allows us to open up and be more vulnerable. It’s generally a supporting environment because everyone comes wanting to make great music. I love getting to know them because it also gives you good insight to how they come up with lyrics, which helps me to adapt my own style and be more creative.
You’ve hit some huge stages this year at Love Saves The Day, Meltdown with Little Simz, and Glastonbury. What have those live moments taught you about performance, confidence, or connecting with a crowd?
I’ve been performing for five years now, since I was 18. It’s been really fulfilling to feel my confidence grow with every live show. With each show, I get a really warm response and it solidifies in my mind that I’m good at what I do. Once I had that realisation, which only really came about this year, it’s made it so much easier to get on the stage. I now know that the crowd is rooting for you to do well and give them a good show.
Your top tip to artists trying to find their own voice
Firstly, realise that it takes time. The type of songs I wrote and recorded when I was 18 are very different to the ones I make 5 years later. You have to trust yourself that your confidence will build, with each studio session and each show, until the point you know exactly who you are. I’m still on that journey, but feel a lot closer since I give myself the space to try new things and put them out there, no matter how successful they’d end up.
Your top tip to network with the right people in the industry.
Get creative! Remember, you’re your own brand. Be excited about what you have to offer, and take advantage of opportunities to get in the room. This can be attending events, whether industry or live shows, and being open to meeting all types of people. You never know where a conversation could take you. I had a funny experience at The Great Escape three years ago, where I got up on stage to dance (horrifically) with Ants Live. Through this, I met Dellessa James, who leads the exciting black music strategy at Amazon Music with +44.
What’s your favorite/least favorite thing about making music?
When I get the time to make music, I often surprise myself with the lyrics I can come up with. I’ve always known myself as a creative person, even at school writing stories was my favourite thing. Being able to write a song that others can in some way connect to, and able to put on if they’re having a bad day, is really fulfilling. And the best thing about music is the endless possibilities of songwriting. It’s exciting to always feel like you’re yet to make your best song.
What are you listening to at the moment?
I’m listening to Little Simz’s new album Lotus. My favourite songs on there are Enough and Young. Sasha Keble is also filling up my playlist as I’m loving more soulful music at the moment. I’ve been lucky enough to see both of them live recently which brought the songs to life.